At St. Joseph Parish, our Confirmation Ministry is more than just a program; it’s a transformative journey that connects our youth with their faith, community, and each other. It is sacramental preparation, affirming the personal commitment to the life in faith that our parents chose for us long ago at Baptism. Through Confirmation we agree with their initial decision to raise us in the faith. It is also an opportunity for the candidates to grow with each other and learn what it means to be a Catholic in the modern world.  Confirmation is a journey over two years, between 8th grade and high school, that brings students closer to the self, others, nature, (and especially) God.

In addition to catechesis, the program emphasizes the importance of community and service. Candidates participate in various service projects that allow them to put their faith into action. These experiences help them recognize their role in the church and the broader community, fostering a sense of responsibility and compassion. In the past we have made blessing bags for the homeless, collected food for the pantry, cleaned up trash at Lake Elizabeth, and even filled the Easter eggs for the yearly egg hunt.

The growth of our group was most notable this past spring, when our confirmation candidates embarked on a retreat to Caritas Creek and immersed themselves in the theme "Harden Not Your Hearts." The experience left a lasting mark on many participants, creating bonds and profound reflections.

One unforgettable moment occurred during a beautiful rainstorm that swept through the retreat. As the skies darkened, thunder rumbled and rain poured down, shaking the building with intensity. Rather than feeling fear, the candidates gathered in the common area, feeling an unexpected sense of awe.

As the weather raged outside, the group sat together, sharing their thoughts and feelings. Their hearts were open to God in that moment, knowing that it is not always so obvious when the Lord reveals himself to us. One candidate spoke up, expressing how the storm made him feel closer to God. He shared that in the midst of the chaos, he sensed a profound presence, a reminder of God’s power and love enveloping them all. Moved by his words, the candidates began to reflect on their own experiences of God in the midst of life’s storms, both literal and metaphorical. 

Returning to St. Joseph Parish, the impact of that stormy night and hikes around the forest lingered in their hearts. The experience deepened their faith and fostered connections among them that would last well beyond the retreat. Through moments like these, the Confirmation Ministry nurtures belonging, faith, and compassion, reminding us all to “harden not our hearts” in the face of life’s challenges.  

None of this would be possible without the support of all the parents and volunteers that show immense love and give so much of themselves to make each event happen, whether it’s being a greeter at Sunday Mass or chaperoning the weekend retreat, we have a strong community with so many important moving pieces. Thank you all. Here’s to another wonderful year!

~ Aaron Loverro, Youth Coordinator. Mr. Loverro also serves on the faculty at St. Joseph School and teaches 8th Grade Science. He can be reached at aloverro@saintjosephmsj.org.